chore(ci): update node version

[nsarlin-zama]

closes: please link all relevant issues

PR content/description

Update the node version used in ci.

Check-list:

• Tests for the changes have been added (for bug fixes / features)
• Docs have been added / updated (for bug fixes / features)
• Relevant issues are marked as resolved/closed, related issues are linked in the description
• Check for breaking changes (including serialization changes) and add them to commit message following the conventional commit specification

[IceTDrinker]

@nsarlin-zama this can be closed, I put the update in the ci fixes PR along with a reduction in bench loops to avoid the memory exhaustion/fragmentation we were hitting