add tests with ASAN to node CI #4677

Job	Run time
ci (ubuntu-20.04, gcc, g++, 20, Release)	8m 0s
ci (ubuntu-20.04, gcc, g++, 20, Debug)	7m 26s
ci (ubuntu-20.04, clang, clang++, 20, Release)	8m 12s
ci (ubuntu-20.04, clang, clang++, 20, Debug)	6m 59s
ci (ubuntu-22.04, gcc, g++, 20, Release)	7m 3s
ci (ubuntu-22.04, gcc, g++, 20, Debug)	6m 29s
ci (ubuntu-22.04, clang, clang++, 20, Release)	9m 29s
ci (ubuntu-22.04, clang, clang++, 20, Debug)	7m 56s
ci (macos-12, gcc, g++, 20, Release)	6m 19s
ci (macos-12, gcc, g++, 20, Debug)	8m 7s
ci (macos-14, clang, clang++, 20, Release)	3m 59s
ci (macos-14, clang, clang++, 20, Debug)	3m 48s
ci (windows-2022, cl, cl, 20, Release)	7m 13s
ci (windows-2022, cl, cl, 20, Debug)	7m 17s
	1h 38m 17s

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