Update begin delete

[shelton408]

Description

WIP - rough draft to check the potential scale of impact
Changes to separate delete table handles from generic table handles.

Motivation and Context

Please refer to #24520

Impact

Metadata, ConnectorMetadata, MetadataManager changed
->downstream affects execution: TableWriteInfo, ExecutionWriterTarget, TableWriterNode
Create 2 new types: ConnectorDeleteTableHandle, DeleteTableHandle
Types Changed: TableWriterNode.DeleteHandle

Also affects finishDelete, getDeleteRowIdColumnHandle types (AbstractMockMetadata, DelegatingMetadataManager)

Other classes affected:
ConnectorPageSinkProvider -> provide new pagesink for deletes?
ConnectorHandleResolver -> provide new getDeleteTableHandleClass method -> HandleResolver implements new ConnectorDeleteTableHandle

All connectors affected, those that implement DELETE will require more changes.
Kudu and iceberg connector both need to change types used for begin/finish delete
Iceberg currently uses IcebergTableHandle which inherits from basehivetablehandle->connectorTableHandle, and we would need to create a separate IcebergTableHandle for deletes

This would eventually apply to update as well if were going to make the code symmetric

Test Plan

TBD
Pass presto-icebergs tests (includes DELETE tests)

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Has passed presto-Iceberg delete tests In the current state