feat (aci milestone 3): dual update helpers for triggers and trigger actions

[mifu67]

When updating an AlertRuleTrigger or AlertRuleTriggerAction, update the relevant rows in the ACI tables.

[codecov]

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Attention: Patch coverage is 20.00000% with 40 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

✅ All tests successful. No failed tests found.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...ry/workflow_engine/migration_helpers/alert_rule.py	11.11%	40 Missing ⚠️

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