fix: add cache invalidation on config change

[mellyeliu]

Context

Cherry picking #862 for version history

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workflow: benchmarks/size

Comparison of minified (terser) and compressed (brotli) size results, measured in bytes. Smaller is better.

@stylexjs/[email protected] size:compare
./size-compare.js /tmp/tmp.AdpgPn1UX5 /tmp/tmp.hugDgdOi2v

Results	Base	Patch	Ratio
stylex/lib/stylex.js
· compressed	729	729	1.00
· minified	2,541	2,541	1.00
stylex/lib/StyleXSheet.js
· compressed	1,266	1,266	1.00
· minified	3,776	3,776	1.00
rollup-example/.build/bundle.js
· compressed	567,110	567,110	1.00
· minified	10,232,512	10,232,512	1.00
rollup-example/.build/stylex.css
· compressed	100,628	100,628	1.00
· minified	755,718	755,718	1.00