Remove `user` and `password` options for sql-server #15315

Job	Run time
Go tests - no race (macos-latest)	2m 28s
Go tests - no race (ubuntu-22.04)	2m 16s
Go tests - no race (windows-latest)	5m 47s
Go tests (macos-latest)	47m 2s
Go tests (ubuntu-22.04)	48m 6s
Go tests (windows-latest)	51m 21s
	2h 37m 0s

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