set LD_LIBRARY_PATH for fbgemm in validate_binaries.sh (pytorch#2696)

Summary:

# context
* to address the error when running github test
```
+++ conda run -n build_binary python -c 'import torch; import fbgemm_gpu; import torchrec'
+++ local cmd=run
+++ case "$cmd" in
+++ __conda_exe run -n build_binary python -c 'import torch; import fbgemm_gpu; import torchrec'
+++ /opt/conda/bin/conda run -n build_binary python -c 'import torch; import fbgemm_gpu; import torchrec'
ERROR:root:Could not load the library 'fbgemm_gpu_tbe_index_select.so': /lib64/libstdc++.so.6: version `GLIBCXX_3.4.29' not found (required by /opt/conda/envs/build_binary/lib/python3.10/site-packages/fbgemm_gpu/fbgemm_gpu_tbe_index_select.so)
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "<string>", line 1, in <module>
  File "/opt/conda/envs/build_binary/lib/python3.10/site-packages/fbgemm_gpu/__init__.py", line 62, in <module>
    _load_library(f"{library}.so")
  File "/opt/conda/envs/build_binary/lib/python3.10/site-packages/fbgemm_gpu/__init__.py", line 21, in _load_library
    raise error
  File "/opt/conda/envs/build_binary/lib/python3.10/site-packages/fbgemm_gpu/__init__.py", line 17, in _load_library
    main()
  File "/home/ec2-user/actions-runner/_work/torchrec/torchrec/test-infra/.github/scripts/run_with_env_secrets.py", line 98, in main
    run_cmd_or_die(f"docker exec -t {container_name} /exec")
  File "/home/ec2-user/actions-runner/_work/torchrec/torchrec/test-infra/.github/scripts/run_with_env_secrets.py", line 39, in run_cmd_or_die
    raise RuntimeError(f"Command {cmd} failed with exit code {exit_code}")
RuntimeError: Command docker exec -t d5cfe23625bf3b1538b808a1344090ae72ff3977990bc1f780c7a46435a384ec /exec failed with exit code 1
    torch.ops.load_library(os.path.join(os.path.dirname(__file__), filename))
  File "/opt/conda/envs/build_binary/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/_ops.py", line 1357, in load_library
    ctypes.CDLL(path)
  File "/opt/conda/envs/build_binary/lib/python3.10/ctypes/__init__.py", line 374, in __init__
    self._handle = _dlopen(self._name, mode)
OSError: /lib64/libstdc++.so.6: version `GLIBCXX_3.4.29' not found (required by /opt/conda/envs/build_binary/lib/python3.10/site-packages/fbgemm_gpu/fbgemm_gpu_tbe_index_select.so)
```
* the issue was fixed before by D67949409 ([pytorch#2671](pytorch#2671)) in for another test
* this diff applies the same fix on the validate_binaries test.

# details
* previous failures
{F1974496108}

Differential Revision: D68511145

.github/scripts/validate_binaries.sh

@@ -49,6 +49,24 @@ elif [[ ${MATRIX_CHANNEL} = 'release' ]]; then
     export PYTORCH_URL="https://download.pytorch.org/whl/${CUDA_VERSION}"
 fi
 
+
+echo "CU_VERSION: ${CUDA_VERSION}"
+echo "MATRIX_CHANNEL: ${MATRIX_CHANNEL}"
+echo "CONDA_ENV: ${CONDA_ENV}"
+
+if [[ $CUDA_VERSION = cu* ]]; then
+    # Setting LD_LIBRARY_PATH fixes the runtime error with fbgemm_gpu not
+    # being able to locate libnvrtc.so
+    echo "[NOVA] Setting LD_LIBRARY_PATH ..."
+    conda env config vars set -p ${CONDA_ENV}  \
+        LD_LIBRARY_PATH="/usr/local/lib:${CUDA_HOME}/lib64:${CONDA_ENV}/lib:${LD_LIBRARY_PATH}"
+else
+    echo "[NOVA] Setting LD_LIBRARY_PATH ..."
+    conda env config vars set -p ${CONDA_ENV}  \
+        LD_LIBRARY_PATH="/usr/local/lib:${CONDA_ENV}/lib:${LD_LIBRARY_PATH}"
+fi
+
+
 # install pytorch
 # switch back to conda once torch nightly is fixed
 # if [[ ${MATRIX_GPU_ARCH_TYPE} = 'cuda' ]]; then

.github/workflows/validate-binaries.yml

@@ -1,6 +1,12 @@
 name: Validate binaries
 
 on:
+  pull_request:
+    paths-ignore:
+      - "docs/*"
+      - "third_party/*"
+      - .gitignore
+      - "*.md"
   workflow_call:
     inputs:
       channel: