[nlpo3-python]: Fix build Python wheels

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To fix #64

Looks like we have issue with ciwheelbuild configuration.

• Use actions-rust-lang/setup-rust-toolchain for Rust toolchain setup
• Remove manual cache management, let setup-rust-toolchain and setup-python handle that
• Update GitHub Actions dependencies

[bact]

Looks like the workflow can at least start building on a number of platforms.

The error now is from the code, see #80, which can be fixed in another PR.

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Pass in Windows and macOS for all Python versions.

Failed in Linux in all Python versions.

• "error: can't find Rust compiler" issue

Will merge as its current state and fix Linux issue in another PR.