[rapids] refactored dask and rapids to more closely match one another#1253

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cjac wants to merge 3 commits intoGoogleCloudDataproc:masterfrom LLC-Technologies-Collier:rapids-20241027

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Commits on Oct 31, 2024

Commits on Nov 9, 2024

these have been tested to work for the most part
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