Migrate to buildx, and wait for daemon to start

[msm-cert]

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• I've tested my changes by building and running mquery, and testing changed functionality (if applicable)
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This will fix two issues at once:

• we will migrate buildx which may improve build times
• we we will fix e2e test issues (we still have improper dependency tracking)

[msm-cert]

Someone remind me, why was this a draft? LGTM