[CI, enhancement] move DPCPP CI to self-hosted github runner

[icfaust]

Description

Follow through on CI promises, this moves the slow (2+ hour) DPCPP build to a more capable runner, and adds dpc examples testing (since it has a GPU).

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• I have reviewed my changes thoroughly before submitting this pull request.
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Testing

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• I have extended testing suite if new functionality was introduced in this PR.

Performance

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[icfaust]

It looks like IDC doesn't interact well with anaconda queries anymore: https://community.intel.com/t5/Intel-Tiber-Developer-Cloud/429-error-using-Conda-inside-the-intel-developer-cloud/td-p/1626241 which means that we need to specifically use conda-remove-defaults: "true" to remove defaults (https://github.com/conda-incubator/setup-miniconda?tab=readme-ov-file#example-14-remove-defaults-channel), based on conda/conda#12356

[icfaust]

/intelci: run