diff --git a/Cargo.lock b/Cargo.lock
index f147124..1aaca93 100644
--- a/Cargo.lock
+++ b/Cargo.lock
@@ -141,6 +141,12 @@ version = "1.0.0"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "baf1de4339761588bc0619e3cbc0120ee582ebb74b53b4efbf79117bd2da40fd"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "cfg_aliases"
+version = "0.1.1"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "fd16c4719339c4530435d38e511904438d07cce7950afa3718a84ac36c10e89e"
+
 [[package]]
 name = "clang-sys"
 version = "1.7.0"
@@ -309,11 +315,11 @@ name = "ktls"
 version = "5.0.0"
 dependencies = [
  "futures-util",
- "ktls-recvmsg",
  "ktls-sys",
  "lazy_static",
  "libc",
  "memoffset",
+ "nix",
  "num_enum",
  "oorandom",
  "pin-project-lite",
@@ -329,16 +335,6 @@ dependencies = [
  "tracing-subscriber",
 ]
 
-[[package]]
-name = "ktls-recvmsg"
-version = "0.1.3"
-source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "d32e94a63f2f71bf1402f8c60c771ac1a51fd5a832d6534edab426f066b053d9"
-dependencies = [
- "libc",
- "nix",
-]
-
 [[package]]
 name = "ktls-sys"
 version = "1.0.1"
@@ -453,12 +449,13 @@ checksum = "c9be0862c1b3f26a88803c4a49de6889c10e608b3ee9344e6ef5b45fb37ad3d1"
 
 [[package]]
 name = "nix"
-version = "0.27.1"
+version = "0.28.0"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "2eb04e9c688eff1c89d72b407f168cf79bb9e867a9d3323ed6c01519eb9cc053"
+checksum = "ab2156c4fce2f8df6c499cc1c763e4394b7482525bf2a9701c9d79d215f519e4"
 dependencies = [
  "bitflags 2.4.2",
  "cfg-if",
+ "cfg_aliases",
  "libc",
  "memoffset",
 ]
diff --git a/Cargo.toml b/Cargo.toml
index 00098ac..8891693 100644
--- a/Cargo.toml
+++ b/Cargo.toml
@@ -22,9 +22,9 @@ memoffset = "0.9.0"
 pin-project-lite = "0.2.13"
 tokio = { version = "1.36.0", features = ["net", "macros", "io-util"] }
 ktls-sys = "1.0.1"
-ktls-recvmsg = { version = "0.1.3" }
 num_enum = "0.7.2"
 futures-util = "0.3.30"
+nix = { version = "0.28.0", features = ["socket", "uio", "net"] }
 
 [dev-dependencies]
 lazy_static = "1.4.0"
diff --git a/src/ktls_stream.rs b/src/ktls_stream.rs
index 6b3c607..a83c5ce 100644
--- a/src/ktls_stream.rs
+++ b/src/ktls_stream.rs
@@ -1,4 +1,7 @@
-use ktls_recvmsg::{recvmsg, ControlMessageOwned, Errno, MsgFlags, SockaddrIn};
+use nix::{
+    errno::Errno,
+    sys::socket::{recvmsg, ControlMessageOwned, MsgFlags, SockaddrIn, TlsGetRecordType},
+};
 use num_enum::FromPrimitive;
 use std::{
     io::{self, IoSliceMut},
@@ -71,17 +74,6 @@ enum TlsAlertDescription {
     Other(u8),
 }
 
-#[derive(Debug, PartialEq, Clone, Copy, num_enum::FromPrimitive)]
-#[repr(u8)]
-enum TlsRecordType {
-    ChangeCipherSpec = 20,
-    Alert = 21,
-    Handshake = 22,
-    ApplicationData = 23,
-    #[num_enum(catch_all)]
-    Other(u8),
-}
-
 impl<IO> AsyncRead for KtlsStream<IO>
 where
     IO: AsRawFd + AsyncRead + AsyncReadReady,
@@ -165,11 +157,11 @@ where
                     _ => panic!("unexpected cmsg type: {cmsg:#?}"),
                 };
 
-                match TlsRecordType::from_primitive(record_type) {
-                    TlsRecordType::ChangeCipherSpec => {
+                match record_type {
+                    TlsGetRecordType::ChangeCipherSpec => {
                         panic!("change_cipher_spec isn't supported by the ktls crate")
                     }
-                    TlsRecordType::Alert => {
+                    TlsGetRecordType::Alert => {
                         // the alert level and description are in iovs
                         let iov = r.iovs().next().expect("expected data in iovs");
 
@@ -229,7 +221,7 @@ where
                         }
                         return task::Poll::Ready(Ok(()));
                     }
-                    TlsRecordType::Handshake => {
+                    TlsGetRecordType::Handshake => {
                         // TODO: this is where we receive TLS 1.3 resumption tickets,
                         // should those be stored anywhere? I'm not even sure what
                         // format they have at this point
@@ -237,13 +229,16 @@ where
                             "ignoring handshake message (probably a resumption ticket)"
                         );
                     }
-                    TlsRecordType::ApplicationData => {
+                    TlsGetRecordType::ApplicationData => {
                         unreachable!("received TLS application in recvmsg, this is supposed to happen in the poll_read codepath")
                     }
-                    TlsRecordType::Other(t) => {
+                    TlsGetRecordType::Unknown(t) => {
                         // just ignore the record?
                         tracing::trace!("received record_type {t:#?}");
                     }
+                    _ => {
+                        tracing::trace!("received unsupported record type");
+                    }
                 };
 
                 // FIXME: this is hacky, but can we do better?