[FEATURE] Support additional params in SecureTransportSettingsProvider to enable building of SslContext outside of security plugin

[rishabhmaurya]

Is your feature request related to a problem?
The netty's io.netty.handler.ssl.SslContext is needed by Flight server being introduced in opensearch-project/OpenSearch#16962. Today, it cannot be built outside of security plugin as SecureTransportSettingsProvider doesn't expose it.

What solution would you like?
Provide a way for consumers of SecureTransportSettingsProvider to build SslContext.
Since its a netty dependency which we don't want to add to server module thus we cannot build it in security plugin and expose it using SecureTransportSettingsProvider. Instead, expose all parameters needed to build SslContext to its consumer (plugins & modules) to build it directly.

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