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{
"sid": "cdls34",
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/",
"title:": "I'm Sneaking Out to go to My Dream University.",
"text": "People often tell me my life sounds like a movie.... Now that I think about it, it really does lol.\n\n​\n\nSo my parents have never been supportive of my college education. I got into a university that was really nice during my senior year of high school, and they didn't want me going there at all. I was only 17 at the time, so I didn't have the option to take out loans without a cosigner, and my parents refused. So .. I had to turn down the offer and start at my local community college. The only positive to this was that I got to go for free lol.\n\nI'm at community college now, and I applied to several schools crossing my fingers that I would get in. I worked my ass off to make sure that I didn't get anything less than an A in all of my classes. I also got a credit card to establish a credit history for myself so that I could be eligible to take out loans (if I need to) for university. My parents think that I will be doing the nursing program at my community college, but I will really be transferring to a university. I had to lie to my parents about why I had to have a credit card because they got suspicious.\n\nFast forward a couple months later, I received the acceptance letter that changed everything. My top university accepted me into their nursing program. I could not believe it. In my eyes, I was just an average student, and I doubted that I would have got in, but I did. I also ended up getting a scholarship that covers all of my tuition and books. I would only need to get loans for the dorm. I know that people say that \"loans are the devil\" and everything, but this is an investment for my education, and I know it will pay off in the end.\n\nMy parents do not know that I got into this university nor do they know that I am planning on leaving. I know 110% that they would not support me going, and may even do everything that they can to stop me. I will leave when my parents aren't home and get a ride/bus to the university on moving day. I do feel kind of bad about doing this, but I do hope that they will understand why I did this with time.\n\nI'm posting this for all of those people who have no support from anyone with trying to get your education. It's not easy at all, and there were several times where I felt like giving up, but you can do it.\n\n​\n\nEDIT: Thank you everyone! I never thought I was going to get such a big response! I really appreciate everyone's support :)",
"author": "igottaconquer246",
"created": 1563217227,
"updated": 1634076520,
"over_18": false,
"upvotes": 1913,
"upvote_ratio": 0.97,
"comments": {
"etuqmde": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuqmde/",
"text": "Out of curiousity, why are your parents so against you going to a university? Also, congrats! You rock!",
"author": "momeep4444",
"created": 1563218008,
"upvotes": 644,
"replies": {
"etvhh71": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvhh71/",
"text": "My situation is very similar, and in my case, it's a severe syndrome of jealousy/bitterness. My family believes I'll think I'm \"better than them\" if I go.",
"author": "fleurdedalloway",
"created": 1563235521,
"upvotes": 209,
"replies": {
"etw5s1o": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etw5s1o/",
"text": "That\u2019s really sad because parents should want their kids to be better than them. That should be the goal of parenting",
"author": "CubonesDeadMom",
"created": 1563255017,
"upvotes": 126,
"replies": {}
},
"etvwk73": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvwk73/",
"text": "This was my experience too.",
"author": "Redshirt2386",
"created": 1563246606,
"upvotes": 41,
"replies": {}
},
"etyqic3": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etyqic3/",
"text": "Wow! Seriously?? I didn't know such parents existed honestly.",
"author": "werty0051",
"created": 1563321326,
"upvotes": 8,
"replies": {
"etz1a07": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etz1a07/",
"text": "I\u2019ll be attending UC Berkeley in the Fall, and my parent absolutely despises it.",
"author": "fleurdedalloway",
"created": 1563325551,
"upvotes": 5,
"replies": {
"etzc34y": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etzc34y/",
"text": "WOW...Why? My parents would kiss the ground if I ever got into that school. Wow..Just wow...Congrats!",
"author": "snowy1010",
"created": 1563329770,
"upvotes": 7,
"replies": {
"etzch8p": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etzch8p/",
"text": "They feel like I\u2019m abandoning them (single parent) and like I think I\u2019m better than them. \n\nBut thank you!!! I don\u2019t know if you\u2019re already in college, but good luck on your aspirations!!",
"author": "fleurdedalloway",
"created": 1563329927,
"upvotes": 6,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"eudny8y": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/eudny8y/",
"text": "Hey my friend is going there to swim too!",
"author": "TunelessNinja",
"created": 1563722891,
"upvotes": 2,
"replies": {}
}
}
}
}
}
}
},
"etvzgpn": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvzgpn/",
"text": "not op but abstractly my father always wanted me to go to college, but he meant doing it his way and living at home and staying under his thumb because if I were to leave I would be betraying him and going out to make stupid decisions and ultimately get pregnant and ruin my life. also because I have medical issues and he is convinced I can't take care of myself. so it very well may be a control issue with op's parents",
"author": "flowercrowngirl",
"created": 1563248976,
"upvotes": 47,
"replies": {
"etys79h": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etys79h/",
"text": "Wow I went through a very similar experience. My parent is a bit... unstable and saw me moving as betrayal and abandonment which is pure BS. I was gonna cave in and live on campus at my crappy local college but once I found out she was mad about that too, I realized it was just her trying to control my life forever, not about what\u2019s best for me. Sadly I didnt end up at my favorite school but I am going to be going to a college an hour away and living on campus. I\u2019m proud of myself for sticking to what\u2019s best for me despte the constant screaming over it. I don\u2019t understand why some parents can\u2019t just want what\u2019s best for their child and not them.",
"author": "Dblcut3",
"created": 1563321979,
"upvotes": 3,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"etvmbn8": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvmbn8/",
"text": "Maybe religious reasons? I know groups like Jehovah\u2019s Witnesses discourage people from getting a college education.",
"author": null,
"created": 1563239115,
"upvotes": 62,
"replies": {}
},
"ety4c0d": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/ety4c0d/",
"text": "My parents are against me going to a university because of cultural reasons. I'm not Asian btw lol, but my parents don't believe in moving out (especially for daughters) unless you get married. For as long as I could remember, they have done everything in their power to keep me inside the house, not have any friends (so I don't get \"ideas\" and bad influences), etc.",
"author": "igottaconquer246",
"created": 1563312875,
"upvotes": 13,
"replies": {
"ety5ddp": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/ety5ddp/",
"text": "That sounds like a uniquely frustrating situation. Culture is very important, and it appears as though you may be in caught in between more than one. You are lucky that you are firm in what you want and what you feel is right. There are plenty of ways to embrace your family's culture while still embracing yours :) I hope you don't ever feel like you have to choose one or the other, even if others may paint it that way. Best of luck on your journey!",
"author": "momeep4444",
"created": 1563313326,
"upvotes": 7,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"etut571": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etut571/",
"text": "Perhaps they are an international.",
"author": null,
"created": 1563219473,
"upvotes": 99,
"replies": {
"etuuq9z": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuuq9z/",
"text": "They are getting a ride/bus to their schools moving day. From, say, Asia. 100%",
"author": "the_chirik",
"created": 1563220386,
"upvotes": 195,
"replies": {
"etuwll0": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuwll0/",
"text": "\ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2642\ufe0f",
"author": null,
"created": 1563221460,
"upvotes": 28,
"replies": {}
},
"etuwplh": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuwplh/",
"text": "Other countries have colleges though, right?",
"author": "kingpinpenguin_",
"created": 1563221523,
"upvotes": 24,
"replies": {
"etuwuan": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuwuan/",
"text": "Do they have community colleges though? That\u2019s a no, sir, at least for the majority.",
"author": "the_chirik",
"created": 1563221596,
"upvotes": 41,
"replies": {}
},
"etuwu8a": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuwu8a/",
"text": "i think he\u2019s talking about the asian transportation culture (he was implying that the fact they thought of a bus first was significant, i think?)",
"author": "friendoze",
"created": 1563221595,
"upvotes": 14,
"replies": {
"etuxi41": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuxi41/",
"text": "You can\u2019t take a bus from China to the US.",
"author": null,
"created": 1563221973,
"upvotes": 61,
"replies": {
"etv58os": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etv58os/",
"text": "Not with that attitude you can't",
"author": "deepfriedconnoisseur",
"created": 1563226702,
"upvotes": 159,
"replies": {}
}
}
}
}
}
}
}
}
},
"etvkbmj": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvkbmj/",
"text": "International students can\u2019t get student loans in the US, IIRC",
"author": null,
"created": 1563237638,
"upvotes": 8,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"etxooqq": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etxooqq/",
"text": "In my situation, my parents want to keep me home and under their lock and key. Also don\u2019t want me taking out loans when I could get a full ride to the two local schools. They think any old local education is just as good as anywhere else if I plan on going to medical school.",
"author": "6howdy2",
"created": 1563303963,
"upvotes": 4,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"etut0es": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etut0es/",
"text": "I wish you the best of luck. It's not easy to do something you know isn't going to be well received. If you haven't already, I suggest finding your social security card and birth certificate and securing them somewhere your parents cannot get them. And if possible, I suggest moving your most treasured/necessary belongings to the home of a trusted friend or family member prior to your departure. You're not going to be able to take much on a bus, but a box or two of stuff at a friend's house could be a godsend in a new environment.",
"author": "builtonruins",
"created": 1563219395,
"upvotes": 212,
"replies": {
"etvnco1": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvnco1/",
"text": "Also OP, if your parents are on your bank account (common if the acct was opened when you were a minor), open a new account at a different bank in your name only to move your $ to.",
"author": "SpicoliHairDontCare",
"created": 1563239851,
"upvotes": 58,
"replies": {}
},
"ety4h0j": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/ety4h0j/",
"text": "Thank you so much! :)",
"author": "igottaconquer246",
"created": 1563312937,
"upvotes": 3,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"etuqlql": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuqlql/",
"text": "Congratulations! I\u2019m really impressed and inspired by the dedication you have toward your education and dreams!",
"author": "niatee",
"created": 1563217998,
"upvotes": 212,
"replies": {
"ety4czr": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/ety4czr/",
"text": "Thank you :)",
"author": "igottaconquer246",
"created": 1563312887,
"upvotes": 6,
"replies": {}
},
"etuw4nb": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuw4nb/",
"text": "cool?",
"author": "Wesley_Ford",
"created": 1563221197,
"upvotes": -268,
"replies": {
"etwamt0": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etwamt0/",
"text": "Found OP's parents",
"author": "Talyth",
"created": 1563260790,
"upvotes": 37,
"replies": {}
},
"etvyl0w": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvyl0w/",
"text": "Cool!",
"author": "Xeno_Strike",
"created": 1563248230,
"upvotes": 24,
"replies": {}
},
"etw2vwj": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etw2vwj/",
"text": "Imagine being this bitter",
"author": "nasawesome",
"created": 1563252061,
"upvotes": 13,
"replies": {
"etwd27o": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etwd27o/",
"text": "He\u2019s a troll account",
"author": "Redeclaw",
"created": 1563264118,
"upvotes": 7,
"replies": {}
},
"etw4929": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etw4929/",
"text": "Wait I don\u2019t get his connotation. What does his \u201ccool?\u201d imply?",
"author": "Al_Rapee",
"created": 1563253418,
"upvotes": 2,
"replies": {
"etwa2bz": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etwa2bz/",
"text": "It's like saying, 'is this supposed to be interesting or worth saying?'",
"author": "Chennsta",
"created": 1563260047,
"upvotes": 7,
"replies": {}
}
}
}
}
},
"f4qvvqw": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/f4qvvqw/",
"text": "r/shutupwesley",
"author": "thedoctor5445",
"created": 1571758971,
"upvotes": 2,
"replies": {}
},
"etuxo1b": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuxo1b/",
"text": "[deleted]",
"author": null,
"created": 1563222070,
"upvotes": -6,
"replies": {
"etuylpo": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuylpo/",
"text": "Downvote troll. Look at comment history. Thrives off this shit",
"author": "hoesuay",
"created": 1563222607,
"upvotes": 14,
"replies": {
"etuz4ry": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuz4ry/",
"text": "How do you check comment history?",
"author": "DemonicBarbequee",
"created": 1563222916,
"upvotes": 7,
"replies": {
"etv0856": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etv0856/",
"text": "Click on their username, and profile",
"author": "hoesuay",
"created": 1563223558,
"upvotes": 9,
"replies": {}
}
}
}
}
}
}
}
}
}
}
},
"etuqu2y": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuqu2y/",
"text": "Before u leave, leave a note that says everything on this post and more. And that u love them",
"author": "brandan0987",
"created": 1563218131,
"upvotes": 237,
"replies": {
"etuxtkf": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuxtkf/",
"text": "This, emphasize you love them and tell them everything. Then after a while (a couple of days) call them and tell him how much education at that school means to you and how hard you worked for it.\n\nEdit: misspelled a word",
"author": "DemonicBarbequee",
"created": 1563222157,
"upvotes": 128,
"replies": {
"etw0a5n": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etw0a5n/",
"text": "Depending on the situation, it may be best for them not to mention where they are. For some people, that's dangerous",
"author": "djingrain",
"created": 1563249683,
"upvotes": 26,
"replies": {}
},
"etytgmp": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etytgmp/",
"text": "It sounds like in this case that it won\u2019t matter. It\u2019s depressing how many parents just want their way and nothing else.",
"author": "Dblcut3",
"created": 1563322480,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {
"etyzjn0": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etyzjn0/",
"text": "Showing them you love them and worked really hard to achieve education might lead them to reconsidering their stance.",
"author": "DemonicBarbequee",
"created": 1563324867,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {
"etyzsvw": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etyzsvw/",
"text": "As someone who has a parent like this, trust me. They never come around. Or if they do it\u2019s because they know they lost, not because they understand.",
"author": "Dblcut3",
"created": 1563324965,
"upvotes": 3,
"replies": {}
}
}
}
}
}
}
},
"etwmn1i": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etwmn1i/",
"text": "Also let the local police know after you left that you haven\u2019t ran away but have left by will, your parents may notify the police claiming you were kidnaped.",
"author": "Nitr0s0xideSys",
"created": 1563277365,
"upvotes": 12,
"replies": {}
},
"ety4kst": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/ety4kst/",
"text": "Thank you! I won't tell them my location, but I will definitely leave a note.",
"author": "igottaconquer246",
"created": 1563312983,
"upvotes": 7,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"etuq52v": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuq52v/",
"text": "Savage, what uni?",
"author": "jdmdude",
"created": 1563217727,
"upvotes": 158,
"replies": {
"etuty3j": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuty3j/",
"text": "nice try, parent",
"author": "guuz2001",
"created": 1563219941,
"upvotes": 251,
"replies": {
"etuy9nq": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuy9nq/",
"text": "[deleted]",
"author": null,
"created": 1563222412,
"upvotes": -2,
"replies": {
"etv0m0g": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etv0m0g/",
"text": "r/whoosh",
"author": "atxcats",
"created": 1563223783,
"upvotes": 7,
"replies": {
"etv5baq": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etv5baq/",
"text": "WOW kid you just got r/WOOOOOOSHED!!!! \ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\udc40\n\n\"Wooosh\" means you didn't get the joke, as in the sound made when the joke \"woooshes\" over your head. I bet you're too stupid to get it, IDIOT!! \ud83d\ude24\ud83d\ude24\ud83d\ude02\n\nMy joke was so thoughtfully crafted and took me a total of 3 minutes, you SHOULD be laughing. \ud83e\udd2c What's that? My joke is bad? I think that's just because you failed. I outsmarted you, nitwit.\ud83e\udd2d\n\nIn conclusion, I am posting this to the community known as \"r/Wooooosh\" to claim my internet points in your embarrassment \ud83d\ude0f. Imbecile. The Germans refer to this action as \"Schadenfreude,\" which means \"harm-joy\" \ud83d\ude2c\ud83d\ude32. WOW! \ud83e\udd2a Another reference I had to explain to you. \ud83e\udd26\u200d\u2642\ufe0f\ud83e\udd2d I am going to cease this conversation for I do not converse with simple minded persons.\ud83d\ude0f\ud83d\ude02",
"author": "deepfriedconnoisseur",
"created": 1563226749,
"upvotes": 82,
"replies": {}
},
"etv1ihd": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etv1ihd/",
"text": "Nice catch",
"author": "AlooPotato123",
"created": 1563224304,
"upvotes": 5,
"replies": {}
}
}
}
}
}
}
},
"etuu8do": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuu8do/",
"text": "begone parent",
"author": "scooterlego",
"created": 1563220101,
"upvotes": 42,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"etuv0j2": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuv0j2/",
"text": "You're not sneaking out, you're growing up.",
"author": "NicolasCageLovesMe",
"created": 1563220547,
"upvotes": 108,
"replies": {
"ety4opz": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/ety4opz/",
"text": "It's sad because I feel like I'm doing something bad (because of how I was raised). That's why I said \"sneaking out\" lol, but yes you are right. :)",
"author": "igottaconquer246",
"created": 1563313033,
"upvotes": 3,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"etuu4ef": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuu4ef/",
"text": "Fantastic - congratulations! I did something a little similar - my mother said I had to live at her house and go to the local university; my father said I had to live at his house and go to one of the local schools. I applied across the country and just ... got on the plane ...",
"author": "finn141414",
"created": 1563220040,
"upvotes": 33,
"replies": {
"etvtvre": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvtvre/",
"text": "that's incredible. Good for you.",
"author": "stuperb",
"created": 1563244599,
"upvotes": 6,
"replies": {}
},
"etwsb4n": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etwsb4n/",
"text": "What happened in the end?",
"author": "anedgygiraffe",
"created": 1563282690,
"upvotes": 3,
"replies": {
"etwsq1t": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etwsq1t/",
"text": "It was the right decision! (I\u2019m a parent now and my child is getting ready to apply to colleges - maybe even my alma mater).",
"author": "finn141414",
"created": 1563283027,
"upvotes": 4,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"etytph0": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etytph0/",
"text": "I just went through a similar thing with my parents this year. Luckily I\u2019m moving on campus but not to where I wouldve liked to go. I always dreamed of doing what you did, but I don\u2019t have the balls to do it frankly. I had to go through a lot of screaming and yelling but luckily I stuck to my goal and I\u2019m moving an hour away on campus. But nonetheless, your story is an inspiration to us all lol",
"author": "Dblcut3",
"created": 1563322576,
"upvotes": 3,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"etuvyto": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuvyto/",
"text": "\\**Paper Towns Vibes\\**\n\nGood luck on whatever endeavors you pursue, and hopefully everything turns all right!",
"author": null,
"created": 1563221101,
"upvotes": 29,
"replies": {}
},
"etur9eu": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etur9eu/",
"text": "[deleted]",
"author": null,
"created": 1563218379,
"upvotes": 78,
"replies": {
"etwhqi7": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etwhqi7/",
"text": "i dont think any asian parent would be against higher education",
"author": "BttrThanU",
"created": 1563271074,
"upvotes": 15,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"etut8s9": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etut8s9/",
"text": "What university if you don\u2019t mind telling lol. Also, do you plan on going to med school after? I have a couple of friends who plan on doing nursing then going to med school so I\u2019m just wondering to see if you\u2019re like them.",
"author": null,
"created": 1563219530,
"upvotes": 25,
"replies": {
"etvxmx4": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvxmx4/",
"text": "Sounds like something a parent would say hmmmmmmm /s",
"author": "pc_turnip",
"created": 1563247456,
"upvotes": 5,
"replies": {
"etvygav": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvygav/",
"text": "Nah I\u2019m a rising HS senior. I plan on doing Biochem and pre med.",
"author": null,
"created": 1563248120,
"upvotes": 6,
"replies": {}
}
}
}
}
},
"etvbou4": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvbou4/",
"text": ">I also ended up getting a scholarship that covers all of my tuition and books. I would only need to get loans for the dorm. \n\nFirst, congrats on your accomplishments and best wishes to you. Since you don't have a full ride, please find out immediately where you can get private loans without a cosigner. For dependent students like you, the first-year undergraduate annual federal loan limit is $5,500. Please make sure you have funding sources if this amount is not enough to cover your room/board/etc.",
"author": "JJKKLL10243",
"created": 1563231207,
"upvotes": 10,
"replies": {
"etvm530": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvm530/",
"text": "Wait, one question, when can students be classified as independent?",
"author": "enguyenn",
"created": 1563238981,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {
"etvmgg7": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvmgg7/",
"text": "[deleted]",
"author": null,
"created": 1563239206,
"upvotes": 3,
"replies": {
"etvmwu7": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvmwu7/",
"text": "What if you are at least 51% of your own support though??",
"author": "enguyenn",
"created": 1563239533,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {
"etvoqyl": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvoqyl/",
"text": "[deleted]",
"author": null,
"created": 1563240868,
"upvotes": 2,
"replies": {
"etw86oz": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etw86oz/",
"text": "Hmm. Sounds like \"at risk of becoming homeless\" would probably apply here.",
"author": "Poppamunz",
"created": 1563257742,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
}
}
}
}
}
}
}
}
}
}
},
"etus9di": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etus9di/",
"text": "Congratulations OP! \n\nJust a word of advice. Often times, I will see on my uni's confessions page of people dropping out because they couldn't keep up with their grades and doing a job at the same time. Because you say dream university, that makes me slightly scared because it sounds like it may be difficult. It always breaks my heart hearing stories like these, so I hope this does not happen to you. Make sure you don't overwork yourself!\n\nBest wishes and may lady luck be on your side!",
"author": "buzzbannana",
"created": 1563218954,
"upvotes": 38,
"replies": {}
},
"etvztrv": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvztrv/",
"text": "Not sure if this was mentioned or not but I would think about getting a post office box for the next three months or so (they are cheap) so you can keep track of your incoming mail. I remember getting a ton of mail from the university I was accepted to and if you live with your parents still and want to keep your decision quiet, they might get suspicious if you are getting things sent to you from your university. Wouldn\u2019t be surprised if they \u201caccidentally\u201d opened something.\n\nGood luck in this next chapter. Happy for you!",
"author": "mogwife",
"created": 1563249288,
"upvotes": 8,
"replies": {}
},
"etvg2ms": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvg2ms/",
"text": "Make sure you have a little money so you can buy various things for your dorm (Plates, cutlery, pots, pans, clothes, phone charger). A trip to ikea does the trick for the most part",
"author": "Uranium_Isotope",
"created": 1563234471,
"upvotes": 6,
"replies": {}
},
"etvloxu": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvloxu/",
"text": "I relate to this to a degree. I\u2019ve been applying to schools I wanna go to without anyone\u2019s knowledge. When the time comes, I\u2019m just gonna leave and not say anything. After all the abuse I\u2019ve endured for years, I don\u2019t believe I owe my parents anything.",
"author": "enguyenn",
"created": 1563238649,
"upvotes": 6,
"replies": {
"etw0n34": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etw0n34/",
"text": "r/raisedbynarcissists\n\nIf you need a place for advice and ranting",
"author": "djingrain",
"created": 1563249997,
"upvotes": 3,
"replies": {
"etw0zby": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etw0zby/",
"text": "Yep! I\u2019m a part of that subreddit as well! LOVE that community.",
"author": "enguyenn",
"created": 1563250299,
"upvotes": 3,
"replies": {}
}
}
},
"etyunlb": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etyunlb/",
"text": "Congrats man. I just went through a similar situation as you. I didnt end up going to my dream school but I did end up deciding on a school an hour away after much screaming and yelling from my parents. It\u2019s not my first choice but at least I won\u2019t be living at home anymore. Point is... it could very well be hell for a while like it was for me. But just stick to the end goal and if you need someone to rant to or something just PM me because I totally understand. Good luck!",
"author": "Dblcut3",
"created": 1563322950,
"upvotes": 2,
"replies": {
"etyvjio": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etyvjio/",
"text": "Thanks bud. I really appreciate it. :))",
"author": "enguyenn",
"created": 1563323291,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
}
}
}
}
},
"etuqpmd": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuqpmd/",
"text": "Damn",
"author": "CaptainMopsy",
"created": 1563218061,
"upvotes": 9,
"replies": {}
},
"etv6tng": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etv6tng/",
"text": "Fucking god",
"author": "FinalPush",
"created": 1563227752,
"upvotes": 5,
"replies": {}
},
"etv2ipj": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etv2ipj/",
"text": "> So my parents have never been supportive of my college education. \n\nSame!! They wanted me do get into Med, every other career is horseshit ! I didn't choose med as I am cut out for it and was always more into Engg. They abused me and mocked me for taking Math, daily. They would pick out random things and poke fun at me! I've developed a fear of Math for this very reason!\n\n> applied to several schools crossing my fingers that I would get in \n\nSame! So my undergrad college has this system where you have to decide whether you would opt for placement or apply for further studies. Whenever, I try to discuss this with them, they pretend to not hear me! So, I went ahead and opted for apping. Months later, when I was talking to the walls again, my Dad evasively said \"Just get a job. Anyways your degree is useless.\" I said, I couldn't anymore, at that point he said nothing.\n\n> My parents do not know that I got into this university nor do they know that I am planning on leaving \n\nThey just do not care!! Just make a snide remark over it if I happen to mention anything!\n\n​\n\nThey paid for my GRE & TOEFL ( completely knowing it is a waste of money! Money has never been an issue tho!)\n\nThey were not letting me apply for the passport either, I had to cry and put up a feat.",
"author": "Chemoraz",
"created": 1563224909,
"upvotes": 7,
"replies": {}
},
"etvdjst": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvdjst/",
"text": "Fuk is wrong with your parents",
"author": null,
"created": 1563232578,
"upvotes": 3,
"replies": {
"etw0imf": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etw0imf/",
"text": "r/raisedbynarcissists\nNot as uncommon as you would think",
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"etvdlts": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvdlts/",
"text": "Fuk is wrong with your parents",
"author": null,
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"etvdt64": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvdt64/",
"text": "I still don't understand why they would not be okay with you going to university but still okay with you going to community college. It's clearly not money related or distance related because those are both covered. You can just get a bus and not move far away, you have everything paid for. They just don't want you going a university??",
"author": "MonoParallax",
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"etw0kic": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etw0kic/",
"text": "Greyhound can take you across the country, so it could be pretty far",
"author": "djingrain",
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"etyut5v": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etyut5v/",
"text": "It\u2019s called controlling narcisistic parents. You\u2019d be shocked how many people have similar situations.",
"author": "Dblcut3",
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"etvk1rm": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvk1rm/",
"text": "do it and never look back. \n\nhuge huge congratulations! i wish you the best of luck in university and i hope you accomplish everything you set out for. \n\njust some advice, start gathering all of your important documents. this means social security card, birth certificate, things like that. if you don\u2019t, you don\u2019t know what your parents are going to do with them. those documents are important when it comes to applying for things. \n\n\nagain, congratulations and good luck! this is a huge achievement!",
"author": "crisptoasts",
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"etvogdr": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvogdr/",
"text": "Duude! Go for it! Thats super awesome and exciting. Im sorry to hear your parents arent supportive about it. And i really cannot say I know exactly what youre going through, but I know that youre damn strong to make that choice.\n\n Hopefully amends can be made with time and you'll find a way to communicate with your parents again.\n\n\nBut holy shit! You rock! I wish you the best, congratulations on the uni, and the scholarship. It'll definitely be worth it.",
"author": "KleptoCyclist",
"created": 1563240650,
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"eturejd": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/eturejd/",
"text": "Congrats",
"author": "Parzaval08",
"created": 1563218461,
"upvotes": 4,
"replies": {}
},
"etutfqs": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etutfqs/",
"text": "Awesome and congrats on making your dream come true and good luck!!!",
"author": "Roak_Larson",
"created": 1563219642,
"upvotes": 2,
"replies": {}
},
"etv7h9n": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etv7h9n/",
"text": "Yo OP keep us updated!",
"author": "they_call_me_justin",
"created": 1563228202,
"upvotes": 2,
"replies": {}
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"etutstw": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etutstw/",
"text": "Damn buddy, that's amazing. I hope you continue to apply the hard work you've cultivated over the past year to your later studies. Part of the situation is understandably ugly, but I have a feeling your parents might one day understand, it'll just take longer than what we would like. Best of luck, and keep us posted!",
"author": "MaybeJohnD",
"created": 1563219854,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etuv2sa": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuv2sa/",
"text": "I hope that they are understanding and this doesn't hurt your relationship with them but good luck!",
"author": "Zakmza123",
"created": 1563220583,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etuw2oy": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuw2oy/",
"text": "Keep going! seize what you want to do in life. Do what you believe is right",
"author": "wwaggv",
"created": 1563221165,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etuxeqd": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuxeqd/",
"text": "Yo that's awesome my dude. Good luck!",
"author": "xKart",
"created": 1563221919,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etuyirw": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etuyirw/",
"text": "do it!\n\nand good luck.",
"author": "dethskwirl",
"created": 1563222562,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etv0yzd": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etv0yzd/",
"text": "Best of luck my friend. No turning back, keep loving forwards, always.",
"author": "ricky1272002",
"created": 1563223992,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etv4jlm": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etv4jlm/",
"text": "Good luck in your endeavors!",
"author": "TheMazeProject",
"created": 1563226237,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etv5ufx": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etv5ufx/",
"text": "As I read this post I was listening to Alone Together by Fall Out Boy and it was so fitting. I\u2019m really happy for you, I hope you have a great time!",
"author": "nervousgrandma",
"created": 1563227104,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etv9qoh": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etv9qoh/",
"text": "What school (if you don't mind answering)",
"author": "chickenmcnugggets",
"created": 1563229808,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etvheoz": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvheoz/",
"text": "Hey! Your story sounds exactly like mine, honestly. I'll be leaving this fall on moving day (but I have my own car to drive myself. Feel free to message me if you ever need support for yourself. Good luck to us all, aye? :)",
"author": "fleurdedalloway",
"created": 1563235469,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etvuno9": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvuno9/",
"text": "I really don't understand parents that don't want their kids to have a good education.",
"author": null,
"created": 1563245172,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etvvn3v": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvvn3v/",
"text": "I respect the hustle. Keep up the work ethic it'll take you very far.",
"author": "ArkBirdFTW",
"created": 1563245898,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etvxjn3": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etvxjn3/",
"text": "my mom does not think I will be able to go to uni since I have little smarts and other thing it worth a shot",
"author": "thebiscutetimtam",
"created": 1563247382,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etw06ij": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etw06ij/",
"text": "Well done!",
"author": "PhilippeCoudoux",
"created": 1563249596,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etw49o1": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etw49o1/",
"text": "I'm sorry that your parents don't support you, but congrats on working hard enough to be able to get into a university on your own!",
"author": "demonangel105",
"created": 1563253434,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etwhuw6": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etwhuw6/",
"text": "You are such a great human. Best of luck to you, I\u2019m sure you\u2019re going to kill it.",
"author": "obenj",
"created": 1563271256,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etwpleu": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etwpleu/",
"text": "Congratulations, you have done a great job.",
"author": "GMINYSCollege",
"created": 1563280331,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etws9qq": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etws9qq/",
"text": "Make sure all you affairs are in order, like phone service, etc. But also try to find a way to tell them at least closer to the date. It would help if you would share your parents primary motivation for keeping you home. If it is money, than the scholarship would cover that issue.",
"author": "anedgygiraffe",
"created": 1563282659,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etwv4q3": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etwv4q3/",
"text": "As someone who's not gonna have their parents FAFSA info for the later three years of high school, and so also is gonna lack any real support? I mean this from the bottom of my heart when I say you're a fucking inspiration.",
"author": "AtheaOfAltea",
"created": 1563284881,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}
},
"etx5zw3": {
"link": "/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/cdls34/im_sneaking_out_to_go_to_my_dream_university/etx5zw3/",
"text": "Dude just tell them, if they say no then leave.\nBut just don\u2019t make them feel bad unless they try now to ruin your future",
"author": "RayenSkoubidou",
"created": 1563292292,
"upvotes": 1,
"replies": {}