…plan properly

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?
Make `ResolveRelations` handle plan id properly

cherry-pick bugfix apache#45214 to 3.5

### Why are the changes needed?
bug fix for Spark Connect, it won't affect classic Spark SQL

before this PR:
```
from pyspark.sql import functions as sf

spark.range(10).withColumn("value_1", sf.lit(1)).write.saveAsTable("test_table_1")
spark.range(10).withColumnRenamed("id", "index").withColumn("value_2", sf.lit(2)).write.saveAsTable("test_table_2")

df1 = spark.read.table("test_table_1")
df2 = spark.read.table("test_table_2")
df3 = spark.read.table("test_table_1")

join1 = df1.join(df2, on=df1.id==df2.index).select(df2.index, df2.value_2)
join2 = df3.join(join1, how="left", on=join1.index==df3.id)

join2.schema
```

fails with
```
AnalysisException: [CANNOT_RESOLVE_DATAFRAME_COLUMN] Cannot resolve dataframe column "id". It's probably because of illegal references like `df1.select(df2.col("a"))`. SQLSTATE: 42704
```

That is due to existing plan caching in `ResolveRelations` doesn't work with Spark Connect

```
=== Applying Rule org.apache.spark.sql.catalyst.analysis.Analyzer$ResolveRelations ===
 '[#12]Join LeftOuter, '`==`('index, 'id)                     '[#12]Join LeftOuter, '`==`('index, 'id)
!:- '[#9]UnresolvedRelation [test_table_1], [], false         :- '[#9]SubqueryAlias spark_catalog.default.test_table_1
!+- '[#11]Project ['index, 'value_2]                          :  +- 'UnresolvedCatalogRelation `spark_catalog`.`default`.`test_table_1`, [], false
!   +- '[#10]Join Inner, '`==`('id, 'index)                   +- '[#11]Project ['index, 'value_2]
!      :- '[#7]UnresolvedRelation [test_table_1], [], false      +- '[#10]Join Inner, '`==`('id, 'index)
!      +- '[#8]UnresolvedRelation [test_table_2], [], false         :- '[#9]SubqueryAlias spark_catalog.default.test_table_1
!                                                                   :  +- 'UnresolvedCatalogRelation `spark_catalog`.`default`.`test_table_1`, [], false
!                                                                   +- '[#8]SubqueryAlias spark_catalog.default.test_table_2
!                                                                      +- 'UnresolvedCatalogRelation `spark_catalog`.`default`.`test_table_2`, [], false

Can not resolve 'id with plan 7
```

`[#7]UnresolvedRelation [test_table_1], [], false` was wrongly resolved to the cached one
```
:- '[#9]SubqueryAlias spark_catalog.default.test_table_1
   +- 'UnresolvedCatalogRelation `spark_catalog`.`default`.`test_table_1`, [], false
```

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
yes, bug fix

### How was this patch tested?
added ut

### Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?
ci

Closes apache#46291 from zhengruifeng/connect_fix_read_join_35.

Authored-by: Ruifeng Zheng <[email protected]>
Signed-off-by: Ruifeng Zheng <[email protected]>